The mind abhors a vacuum. I’m starting to realize that now. I wish it was easy to distract with happy thoughts. But no. Only the toxic and negative things creep in. I solved one problem, history…and the “Now serving” number calls up the next thing that pisses me off.
Why? Why does our mind do that?!?! It’s not healthy. When I was a child, I was afraid of the dark, lightning, monsters, anything that crawled….strangers, being alone, abandoned….name it. I was a trainwreck as a child. I almost drowned, got electrocuted….bit by dogs. In a car accident. How in the Hell did I survive childhood? I have a buried memory of my little league coach taking us to the neighboring town for a game in his Ford panel van. No seats, no seatbelts. Just a bunch of sweaty kids rolling around in the back of his van. We were the original Bad News Bears. And somehow didn’t die.
Maybe my brushes with death gave me PTSD. The near drowning incident gave me a horrendous fear of the water. Oh…by the way, it was skating and falling through ice. Yeah. That bad.
As I mentioned earlier in the last post, I had/have adjustment issues post-military. I know part of it is aging, perspective, culture shock, etc. I also know it was probably some medication they gave us for malaria, or other inoculations that are now banned in some form or another. Something took a chunk of my soul and sanity.
I solved some of my issues this year, only to unearth BS I swept under a rug at one point. I seem to want to my torture. I’m tired. I need sleep. I have another birthday pushing me closer to 60. Fucking 60?!?! How in the Hell did that happen? I’m a 20-30 something trapped in this angry banged up old man’s body. That is such bullshit!
I sent my Psychologist a message tonight to vent and report…that I had a slip. I also took my meds early. I think I feel them kicking in. As they mesh in my bloodstream and brain, the whisper “you will be okay.” Shhhhh….relax. Let that shit go. It will be better in the morning. Put that bottle down…
I just want these little monsters to leave me alone for a day. Let me have some peace.