“The Basis for Optimism is Sheer Terror”
-Oscar Wilde
Early 2007, I was still in the military. I had “plans”.
These plans included being in a few more years at least. I wanted to get promoted one more time. Not the topmost rank, but the 2nd to the last one. I was being realistic. The top rank involved severe handshaking, brown-nosing, politics and playing an exhausting game of interoffice drama.
July of that year a rumor, whispers of HQ coming down to brief us about “something” started. Something life-changing. Come to find out, they were deleting some of our positions, converting others to a different structure. They were cutting budgets and we were the Red-headed step-children.
Our recently new Commander was the hatchet-person, inserted to do the execution. Drop the hammer, cut the fat, reduce waste…you get the idea.
I fondly call that meeting “The Great Pink Slip Meeting of 2007”.
Those that had a “good 20 years” under their belt for retirement, left in the next several months. Two of us needed one more good year. So we had some time to ponder our futures. Of course there was Anger, Fear, Denial, Acceptance…all those emotions, which would swap places depending on what day of the week it was.
It was too early to look for a job, and too early to have a full-blown panic attack. That didn’t stop me from having one…or twelve.
In my usual mindset and sarcastic tradition, I had “Mr. Brightside” by The Killers for my phone ringtone.
I would smirk, grimace every single time my phone rang.
As my time started to run out, I searched far and wide for my new career. And then I thought I landed a sweet deal, only to have that company have a hatchet-man come in to cut the very department I was suppose to start with.
History does repeat itself.
And then my retirement ceremony came. I made sure to tell the new Commander when she spoke to us at the Change of Command Ceremony, she said: “Don’t be afraid of change…” And I said, “…at that time, I didn’t realize that meant to update my resume’.”
(I think that was one of my best lines that day)
So with my new job getting cut before I even started, I scrambled to find another one.
My vacation time was running out and just in that last week of it, I can tell you exactly where I was when I got “The Call” that one of my job leads were going to hire me.
As always, I started out optimistic and hopeful….then of course it would crash and burn due to some poor decisions (and very illegal) of those appointed above me. (He served time in prison for it)
My team that I build from scratch were laid off, and I somehow stumbled onto another job at the 11thhour….again.
That was my life for the next several years. Having fate deal me losing cards and somehow, landing on my feet yet again.
Now my ringtone is a boring off the shelf one.
“But it’s just the price I pay
Destiny is calling me
Open up my eager eyes
‘Cause I’m Mr. Brightside”